Women

She'll give you all that she has..she'll change herself and become what you want her to be..she used to love someone else..but now that she is married to you, she'll be a good wife even if it takes all her courage to even look at you..she'll try her level best to make you happy.
Loyalty runs in the veins of every girl..so don't accuse her of being disloyal..because whatever it was..it was at the time when you were not in her life. Don't forget the fact that ever since she is with you..she has given more importance to your family than her own..
Women are never disloyal..If she is not being good to you..its probably because you're not keeping her happy. She wont ever expect much..she will believe you when you say you were busy..even when she knows you were not..She'll keep waiting for one message from you all day long..she'll pray for your promotion even when her own career is not stable..she'll treat your parents as her own..even if they are not good to her..she will cook your favorite dish for dinner if she gets to know that you're upset because of some problem in the office..even if she is very very tired that day..
What does she expect in return? She expects you to care to for..to call her and ask her if she has had lunch or not..ask her if she is happy in her new department..she expects you to wish her on her birthday..to send gifts for her on valentine's day..and most of all..to respect her emotions!
She has infinite amount of love for you..but you guys have to realize the fact that she cannot put her self respect at stake for your love in return..
She knows that you are lying..even then she will smile & believe your words..She'll convince herself that you are right and she is wrong..once..twice..maybe thrice..but then..one day her heart will give up! So will she.

The day a women stops caring for you, believe me when i say this, whatever you do..you wont be able to break the barrier that she has created. Its not because she doesn't love you any more..its because she cannot allow you hurt her anymore.

Don't treat her like a toy..don't use her for your pleasure. She is not a thing. She is a Goddess in the form of a human. She needs to be loved & cared. She deserves respect.

She can never be disloyal. It is a word created and used by you men. Not us!

Comments

  1. Unknown21 April 2013 at 12:02

    Totally agreed...dose are some beautiful lines that u said... That will help me understand women in a more sensible way... Value her trust in me in the best possible way...it's totally wrong to call a women disloyal.. But u may also agree that there are different women in every society.. U may give her everything she deserve... But still can't manage to win her heart...

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  2. Abha Sinha21 April 2013 at 22:12

    Thanx Avinav! Yes..u r right.. I appreciate your thoughts..but I'd like to correct one thing..!
    There are not "different women" in every society.. It'd be better to say that there are "different people" in the society..!
    You can not match the expectation level of every other individual. What I meant to say, in the article, was that we should respect the emotions of those who love or value us! We should give them their due respect and we should not take them for granted.

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  3. Mahima Kapoor22 April 2013 at 06:14

    Not everyone understands this :(

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  4. jassi28 April 2013 at 09:55

    nicely written dear ...it goes both for love as well as frndship

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